OBJECTIVE:
To help you
identify your basic strengths and weaknesses. To bring more of God’s
"fruit" to your life. To further understand your strengths in order
to maximize your potential. Moreover, to enhance your ability to understand and
communicate with others.
DEFINITIONS
CHARACTER: "The real
you. The hidden man / woman of the heart." It is the sum total of your
training, education, attitudes, beliefs, principles and motivation. It is that
which flows out of the "spirit being."
TEMPERAMENT: The combination of inborn
traits that subconsciously affect human behaviour. It provides
each human being with distinguishing qualities of
uniqueness that makes him / her individually different from his / her fellow
being. It includes both strengths and weaknesses.
PERSONALITY: The outward expression of ourselves. This may or may not be like character, depending on how genuine we are. It is the "face" we show others. A well-developed, godly personality will be the true expression of a solid character combined with a temperament "tempered" with the "fruit of the Holy Spirit" (Galatians 5:22-23).
KEY
POINTS
1) No person is a single temperament.
Usually a person is predominately one temperament. However, there are varying
degrees of temperaments.
2) The idea of presenting the four types
of temperaments is NOT to analyze others. This can be
very demoralizing.
3) This study is designed for self-analysis ONLY, and to help us become more understanding of the natural strengths and weaknesses of others.
THE FOUR BASIC TEMPERAMENTS
THE EXTROVERTS:
1. Sanguine
2. Choleric
THE INTROVERTS:
3. Phlegmatic
4. Melancholic
THE EXTROVERT
Somebody who is sociable, self-confident, and uninhibited when with other people.
THE INTROVERT
Somebody who tends to be more interested in his or her own feelings and thoughts than in other people and the outside world.
TEMPERAMENT TEST − KNOW YOURSELF
Below is an inventory of 80 statements which are clustered in pairs. Please select the number next to the statement which is most typical of you. There are no wrong answers. Make your choice as spontaneous as possible. Remember, only ONE item of each pair is to be selected so that you should have forty (40) items checked at the conclusion of the test.
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1. People say I am
very friendly. |
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2. I like to lead
people. |
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3. I have only a
few close friends. |
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4. Life is a
pleasant experience. |
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5. I am a natural
born leader. |
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6. I don’t give
easily. |
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7. I don’t share
my possessions easily. |
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8. I make friends
easily. |
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9. I enjoy life! |
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10. It’s hard for me to make close friends. |
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11. I am a
perfectionist. |
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12. I express my
anger easily. |
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13. I am moody
(sometimes high, sometimes low). |
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14. Decisions make
me nervous. |
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15. I find it easy
to criticize people. |
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16. I sometimes add
to the facts when telling a story. |
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17. I have an
explosive temper. |
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18. I like things
done right. |
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19. I find it hard
to make decisions. |
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20. I don’t
sympathize easily with others. |
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21. I am
easy-going. |
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22. I have ups and
downs a lot. |
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23. I tend to
exaggerate a lot. |
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24. I don’t easily
loose my cool. |
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25. I am not very
dependable. |
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26. I make
decisions quickly. |
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27. I have a lot of
self-discipline. |
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28. I sometimes
seek revenge. |
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29. I have a
tendency to be cold and unsympathetic. |
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30. People don’t
depend on me for much. |
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31. I am decisive. |
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32. Sometimes
people don’t understand my jokes. |
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33. I have a dry
sense of humour. |
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34. I am not good
at planning my time. |
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35. I tend to be
lazy. |
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36. I accomplish a
lot. |
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37. I am
disorganized. |
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38. I see faults in
others right away. |
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39. I tend to be a
spectator. |
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40. I am very
meticulous. |
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41. I find it hard
to be forgiving. |
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42. I tend to see
the negative sides of everything. |
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43. I am very
productive. |
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44. People
sometimes ask me to lower my voice. |
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45. Sometimes I am
told I speak too loudly. |
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46. I am not highly
motivated. |
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47. I tend to be
negative and pessimistic. |
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48. I like to watch
sports but seldom get involved. |
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49. I don’t have
lots of drive. |
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50. Talking is as
natural as breathing for me. |
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51. I have lots of
patience. |
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52. I am a brave
person. |
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53. I love to talk. |
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54. I like sharing
my opinion. |
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55. I don’t really
enjoy parties. |
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56. I go about
things optimistic. |
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57. I am an
enthusiastic person. |
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58. I don’t like
crowds. |
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59. People tell me
I have great courage. |
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60. I tend to lack
motivation. |
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61. I am very
opinionated. |
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62. Making friends
is a real challenge. |
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63. I require lots
of sleep. |
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64. I enjoy
creative arts and craft. |
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65. I tend to
domineer. |
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66. I rarely find
something I don’t like. |
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67. I don’t make
friends easily. |
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68. I like to feel
in control of things. |
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69. I am good at
music, art or some other craft. |
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70. I don’t mind
waiting for things. |
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71. I love almost
everybody. |
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72. I don’t do well
when I’m tired. |
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73. I am very
confident. |
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74. I don’t have
much energy. |
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75. I often think
people are against me. |
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76. I like to give
every chance I get. |
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77. I am generous
with my money. |
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78. I feel
confident in front of a crowd. |
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79. I often feel
tired. |
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80. I feel like
people don’t like me sometimes. |
INSTRUCTIONS:
I. Select the number you have chosen in the paired items above from the corresponding check boxes below. Each selected item has been recorded on the four (4) scales reproduced below. In other words, if items 1, 4, 6, and 9 have been selected above, the same numbers on the four scales should be checked below.
II. N.B. In the text box following each temperament, write the total number of checked boxes for each category. Maximum = 20 for any one category. The number of checked boxes for each category indicates the varying degrees of temperament strengths and weaknesses per person, i.e. from the strongest to the weakest temperament(s).
1
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4
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8
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9
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16
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23
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25
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30
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34
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37
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44
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45
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50
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53
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56
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57
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66
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71
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76
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77
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2
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5
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12
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17
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20
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26
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28
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29
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31
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36
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41
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43
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52
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54
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59
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61
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65
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68
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73
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78
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6
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7
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14
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19
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21
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24
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32
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33
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35
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39
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46
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48
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49
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51
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60
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63
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70
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72
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74
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79
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3
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10
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11
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13
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15
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18
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22
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27
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38
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40
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42
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47
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55
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58
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62
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64
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67
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69
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75
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80
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Which temperament(s) and spiritual gift(s)/abilities do you possess?
NINE STEPS TO ADJUSTING TO OTHER TEMPERAMENTS
1. Admit to yourself that you are not
perfect [Gal. 3: 3; Phil. 3: 9-12; 2Tim. 3: 16-17].
2. Accept the fact that others have
weaknesses [Rom. 3: 23; Matt. 6: 12-15; 18: 21-22].
3. Concentrate on appreciating the
strengths of others [1Cor. 12; Eph. 4].
4. Pray for each other’s
weaknesses [Rom. 14; 15: 1-8; Jm. 5: 13-16; 19-20; 1Thess. 5:
14-17].
5. Apologize when you are wrong [Acts 22: 1-5; 26: 9-12; 1Tim. 1: 12-17].
6. Verbalize your love [Jn. 13: 34-35; 1Jn. 3: 10; 14; 18-20; 4:
7-8; 16-21].
7. Accept each other’s temperament(s)
and work with it / them. "Esteem others as better than ourselves" [Phil. 2: 3; Gal. 6: 1-3].
8. Expect God to change you and to
change others [Eph. 4: 20-32; Gal. 5: 16-26; Col. 3: 5-17].
9. Be open with God and with others (secrets have a power of their own, which can imprison your mind) [Rom. 2: 16; Heb. 4: 15-16; 1Pet. 5: 7].
CONCLUSION:
In short, man’s basic image of himself is a composite of attitudes that develop in his mind from his earliest days. His parents (caretakers) were his first source of knowledge about himself. The more loving and consistent their attitudes toward him, the more positive and stable his image(s) of himself became. If as a child, however, his physical, psychosocial (soul), and spiritual needs were met only minimally, if at all, the images of himself then, were unstable; fluctuating between self-hate and self-doubt on the one hand, and self-exaltation and self-aggrandizement on the other hand. Additionally, secrets have a power over your life, which can imprison you. The less you have to hide, the more you are free to disclose about yourself.
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