Effective Performance Reviews: A Step-by-Step Plan to Make Them More Meaningful
By Joanne Murray, Monster Contributing Writer
How to Prepare for a Performance Review
Prove Yourself Again with Your First Performance Review
No matter how much you prepare, your performance review will still be at least a bit stressful. So try not to become defensive if you get some constructive criticism during the meeting, and listen as much as you talk.
How to Handle the Self-Evaluation Component of Your Performance Assessment
Self-Praise With Specifics
By Joanne Murray, Monster Contributing Writer
It's that
time of year again. You've got to add performance reviews to your already
overloaded schedule. Even the best managers find it hard to break from their
routines to review the effectiveness of their staff in meeting goals and
priorities. The review process, however, is a powerful tool that can be tied
directly to the department's overall productivity and success, serving to align
staff with the organization's priorities and expectations.
Performance
reviews are designed to both evaluate general performance and measure progress
around specific goals. When well-structured, performance reviews offer an
opportunity to acknowledge the work of staff, address areas in need of
improvement, and identify professional development and training that will
further support the staff members' career growth.
The Best Surprise Is No Surprise
Effective
managers address staff performance throughout the year, providing positive
acknowledgment and necessary coaching and feedback to address problematic areas
or issues. The formal performance review, then, should contain few, if any,
surprises. "The annual review should not be the annual dump of the good,
the bad and the ugly on the employee," says Molly Ambrose, director of
human resources at Bunker Hill Community College. "So many managers, being
conflict-averse, do not address issues as they arise, nor do they acknowledge
good work as it happens."
The review
should serve as a point of reference to both look back in evaluation and ahead
in anticipation. Performance discussions hold great importance for staff and
are generally tied to salary increases and overall compensation. Managers can
maximize the effectiveness of their reviews by establishing a setting that
encourages open communication. The following simple, but often overlooked,
steps help to create a positive climate for the discussion:
- Schedule the meeting in advance.
- Choose a private setting, free from phone or in-person interruptions.
- Set aside enough time for an unhurried discussion.
- Prepare ahead. Review the staff member's goals and record significant points to be discussed. Ask your employee to come prepared to discuss his assessment of key accomplishments, as well as areas in need of support or improvement.
Once you've
set the context for a successful discussion, focus on the following guidelines
to ensure a comprehensive review that allows for two-way communication:
- Begin with an evaluation of primary-position responsibilities. To what extent were these areas of responsibility performed well? In what areas has performance fallen short of expectations? Whenever possible, cite examples and note key demonstrations of both competencies and areas in need of improvement, or developmental areas.
- Review each goal set for the performance period. To what degree were the expected results achieved? What contributed to the staff member's ability to achieve the goal and produce the desired outcomes? What hindered the goal from being met? What steps can be taken to remove any barriers that interfered with success?
- Approach the review with an open mind, prepared to adjust or revise based on the conversation. Use the discussion points you have prepared as guidelines for the discussion, allowing the employee to voice his opinion, in agreement or disagreement.
- Keep feedback about developmental areas constructive. Be specific and objective. Use facts to support your feedback, rather than generalizations about the staff member's character or attitude. When possible, offer support and training to correct these problem areas.
- Focus on professional development. Performance reviews are an excellent time to discuss opportunities for your staff member's growth in his current position.
- Look ahead, developing goals for the next performance period. Make these goals measurable and designate timelines for each.
Always
summarize your review and write down new goals for the year ahead that the
discussion has generated. While many organizations provide a template for this,
those without one can write up salient aspects of the review in memo form to be
distributed by both parties. This document then serves as a reference for the
next review cycle.
Pulling
back from the daily demands in order to review and assess performance allows
managers to stay in touch with what's important to their organizations, focus
their departments and increase the loyalty of those who report to them.
How to Prepare for a Performance Review
By Margaret
Steen, for Yahoo! HotJobs
Is your performance review just
around the corner? There's no need to panic -- but now would be a good time to
prepare. Experts offer these tips for making your review go more smoothly:
Assess What
You Already Know
Ideally, you should be checking in
regularly with your boss to make sure you're doing what's expected.
"The performance evaluation
process should start the day you're hired," said Janet Scarborough
Civitelli, founder and president of Bridgeway Career Development. "There
should not be any big surprises during the actual review."
Perhaps you're extra diligent when
answering customer calls. You may think you're on track for a stellar
performance review -- but your boss could be wondering why each call takes you
so long. To avoid misunderstandings like this, make sure you know what the
goals are for your job and how your boss measures success.
If you haven't been talking to your
boss about this, it's not too late. Even in a few weeks, you may be able to
improve in some areas if necessary.
Dust Off
Your Previous Review
If you had a review at this company
a year ago, it probably contains a list of goals. Ideally, you will have been
working on these goals this year.
Often, however, you'll realize
something has changed. Perhaps a new boss gave you a new direction, or the
project you were supposed to focus on got delayed. Richard Phillips, a career
coach and owner of Advantage Career Solutions, recommends making sure you have
documentation for changes such as these, in case there's a question at review
time.
What if your boss never officially
told you that your goals had changed, but instead just kept piling on other work
so that you weren't able to start the projects you discussed at your last
review? It would have been best to bring this up with your boss when it
happened.
If you didn't, however, it's
important to frame your actions the right way. "Say at review time, 'I
made a strategic decision that this needed more of my attention than
that,'" Phillips said. "Don't make it sound like you just forgot or
you blew it off."
Learn How
Your Company Works
At some companies, negative comments
on performance reviews are uncommon, so anything that's not glowing is cause
for concern. Other companies give every worker areas for improvement.
"You definitely need to know
how the process works at your company," Civitelli said. But you need to
gather your information in an "emotionally intelligent" way. Don't
badger your boss about whether a certain action will get you a 5 instead of a 4
on your review -- it makes you seem more concerned about your evaluation than
about helping the company.
Make Your
Case in Writing
Many times you'll be asked to fill
out a self-evaluation before your review. If that's not part of your company's
process, it's still a good idea to write a summary of your achievements for
your boss before the review.
"There's an art to doing
that," Civitelli said. "You don't want to be too apologetic, but you
also don't want it to appear that you've never thought about anything to
improve on."
Phillips
suggests that any time you mention a weakness, "say what you are doing
about it."
By Peter
Vogt, Monster Senior Contributing Writer
You did so
well in your recent job interviews with Company X that you got the entry-level
position you really wanted. But your days of having to prove your value to the
company are just beginning.
In a few
months or perhaps even a year from now, you'll be asked to demonstrate your
worth again to your supervisor during your first performance review.
Granted,
your review probably won't carry the same make-or-break pressure as your job interview.
But it will still have a significant impact on your future assignments, work
relationships, day-to-day activities and salary. So you need to be as ready for
your review as you were for all those interviews. And that means preparing for
it from day one.
"The
key to a successful performance review is what happens during the three, six or
12 months before the meeting," says Gene Mage, president of Making It
Work, a Horseheads, New York-based leadership development and consulting firm.
That's the time when your working relationship with your boss will be
crystallized -- or not.
But here's
the hard part: In many ways, forging that solid relationship will be up to you,
says Sherry Cornwell, a selection specialist and strategic business partner for
Medica, a Minneapolis-based health insurance company.
"I say
this because there are many organizations and managers who do not take the lead
in on-boarding their new employees," Cornwell says. "In the end, it's
the employee's primary responsibility not to wait for information to be given
to them, but to be proactive."
In other
words, sooner rather than later, you need to clarify your role and your boss's
expectations of you to determine how you'll eventually be assessed at your
performance review. Do you have individual goals you need to achieve? Company
goals?
When your
review is only a few weeks or days away, you must become more concrete by
completing tasks like these:
Summarize Your Key Achievements
Think about
what you've achieved since you began the job, and develop a written list of
your most important accomplishments. Just as you might do if you were to
highlight these achievements on your resume, quantify wherever possible, and
mention specific results (e.g., "helped streamline the customer database,
reducing query processing time by about 40 percent.").
Present These Accomplishments
"Brainstorm
concrete examples that illustrate outstanding performance, and practice
communicating them so they're on the tip of your tongue," says Alexandra
Levit, author of They Don't Teach
Corporate in College.
You might
even want to develop and use a career portfolio, a binder filled with items
that will help you show your supervisor what you've accomplished.
Your
portfolio need not be lengthy or complicated to be effective, says portfolio
expert Carmen Croonquist, director of career services at the University of
Wisconsin-River Falls.
While you
may not have the time or inclination to prepare a full-fledged portfolio featuring layout
pages, divider tabs, captions for the various items and a table of contents,
"it's still advantageous to put the items into a nice binder, even in
instances where you're planning to leave it behind with your supervisor,"
Croonquist says.
Develop a Detailed Agenda
"If you
don't care about your performance reviews, no one else will," Levit
stresses. "The worst thing you can do for your career as a new employee is
to go through the process passively."
Make a
detailed list of what you'd like to cover during your actual review meeting
that's independent of your manager's agenda, Levit says. That way, you'll be
able to discuss what you want to focus on, not just what the boss wants to talk
about.
No matter how much you prepare, your performance review will still be at least a bit stressful. So try not to become defensive if you get some constructive criticism during the meeting, and listen as much as you talk.
If
you've done your homework ahead of time and worked hard to build a solid
relationship with your supervisor, then your formal review will be
"exactly that -- a formality," Mage says.
By Malcolm Fleschner, Monster Contributing Writer
Maybe you're like many politicians, rappers or movie stars,
and you love nothing more than to talk about yourself at great length. Then
again, maybe you're a little more reserved about the prospect of tooting your
own horn.
For those in the latter camp, being asked to perform a
self-evaluation as part of an employee performance appraisal can cause more
than a little consternation. "What is the point of this?" "What
am I supposed to say?" and "Is whatever I put down going to be used
against me?" are just a few of the questions employees raise when
confronted with an employee evaluation form.
The first step, before you put pen to paper, is to relax,
says Milwaukee-based executive coach and organizational development expert Joan
Lloyd. The self-evaluation was not developed by sadistic HR departments just to
torture employees, she says. Rather, it serves a genuine purpose and, when
properly handled, can help further your career.
"Self-assessments have become very popular -- and with
good reason," she says. "Managers can't possibly remember as well as
you can everything you accomplished throughout the year. By asking you to
provide input into your own employee evaluation, it reminds your boss about all
the good things you achieved."
Today, many employees work independently and make more of their own work-related decisions. As a result, managers are less-aware of each team member’s day-to-day activities. That's why, when filling out a self-evaluation form, it's important to detail your accomplishments, be specific and avoid soft terms, says Stephanie Dawkins, a former global senior VP for Volvo and author of Corporate Coffee: Success Never Tasted So Good.
"Adjectives such as 'great,' 'good' and 'a lot' are
very subjective,” she says. “Try to use more measurable objectives such as
'have demonstrated project management skill via coordinating X project' or 'met
all objectives before deadline.' Make sure that you have a record of personal
accomplishments, projects led, objectives met, training sessions attended and
skills developed to draw from."
Lloyd adds that a performance assessment is no time for
false modesty, so go ahead and include factual evidence to support your record
of accomplishments.
”Don't say, 'I work well with my fellow team members,'"
she says. "Instead, say, 'During the Maxwell Project, I stayed late for
three evenings to help Janet get the delivery ready for shipment, and I
volunteered to cover for Pat when she went out for surgery. This saved the unit
money and kept a high level of service for our customers because we didn't have
to hire a temp.'"
Own Your
Shortcomings
On the flip side, when it comes to addressing the negatives
of the past year, Palo Alto, California-based career counselor and coach
Richard Phillips says employees need to be proactive about bringing up what he
prefers to call development areas.
"You can often head off trouble by saying, 'This is an
area where I need to develop, and here's what I'm doing about it,'" he
says. "You never state a weakness or a problem without a solution. Even if
your solution isn't that good, it demonstrates that you're taking responsibility
and that you can self-manage."
Lloyd says that, contrary to the stereotypical image of the
boss who's eager to dress down employees, most managers appreciate team members
who take this kind of initiative.
"As the boss, it just makes your life easier when
someone says, "I know I fouled up that project,'" she says. "And
then when you follow up by saying, 'But from that experience the learning
lessons were X, Y and Z and now, as a result, I'm doing these two things
differently,' that shows a tremendous amount of self-awareness. It also allows
the boss to relax because he or she thinks, 'OK, now I don't have to bring this
up.'"
Directing
the Dialogue
A big part of making the self-evaluation work for you is
your perspective, Phillips says. Don't view the experience as an opportunity
for management to play "gotcha," but as a chance to make yourself
look better than you otherwise might during the performance review and to
neutralize any potential negatives, he says.
Triumph Over a Bad Performance
Lloyd agrees, emphasizing that the self-evaluation allows you
to frame the conversation, control what winds up on your performance appraisal
form and set the tone for how you move forward.
"By taking this sort of
initiative, you set up the whole performance review meeting to be a win, and
much more career-focused and coaching-focused,” she says. “You're more likely
to wind up with a really great, open-ended, two-way dialogue about your past
year. You also have greater control over what goes on the record, and that
record will be crucial in terms of your future career and opportunities."Triumph Over a Bad Performance
Review By Margaret Steen, Monster Contributing Writer
Almost every performance review includes some criticism. But
what happens when you feel like your boss has almost nothing good to say in the
review? Does it mean not just that your work could be improved, but that your
boss wants you gone?
Ask Before
You React
If you're thinking on your feet during the review, you can
ask a question or two to help clarify your situation.
For example, ask your boss to rate your overall performance
on a scale of 1 to 10, where 10 is someone about to be promoted and 1 is
someone about to be fired, suggests executive coach Debra Benton. Using a
numerical scale "kind of takes the personalization out of the whole thing,"
says Benton, author of several books, including How to Think Like a CEO.
Put
Negatives in Perspective
If you walk away from the review still worried, the first
thing to do is to let it sit for a day or two.
"You may have fixated on one comment," says
Richard Phillips, a career coach and owner of Advantage Career Solutions in
Palo Alto, California. People tend to go into reviews listening for negative
comments. And in addition, Phillips says, sometimes managers spend more time
talking about the bad than the good, without putting it in perspective.
If, after rereading your written review, you still think
it's overly negative, consider whether your boss is right about your
performance. Perhaps there's a simple error on the review form, such as a
misstatement of your sales numbers, for example. If so, the error should be
easily corrected.
Keep It
Specific
If you don't fully understand what your boss is unhappy
about, ask for another meeting and request specific examples. If your boss says
you need to be more responsive to coworkers' requests, for example, Phillips
suggests asking what specific events prompted that comment, and how your boss
would like to see you handle similar problems in the future.
The worst-case scenario with a review -- that your boss is
saying you just aren't cutting it -- doesn't happen often. But if your boss
really means you're not doing an acceptable job, then you need to ask yourself
some hard questions to determine why.
If you have had good reviews previously, what has changed?
Do you have a new boss with different expectations? Are you distracted by
personal problems?
Weigh Your
Options
"It may be giving you a true picture, but not something
you want to hear," Phillips says.
It may be tempting to simply quit and look for a new job,
but Phillips urges caution. It could be that you will need to find a new
position -- if, for example, you have tried everything but just aren't clicking
with your boss, or you have had more than one bad review. But rather than
quitting immediately, it's often better to try to address the issues your boss
has raised first.
"If you overreact to it, it
actually ends up being harder in the long run," Phillips says. Your
unhappiness about the review is likely to come through when you're interviewing
for new positions. "It takes you longer to find another job, because
you're out there maybe feeling a little resentful," he says.Five Things to Do If You Get a Bad Review
By Caroline M.L. Potter, Yahoo! HotJobs
The annual
performance review is the professional equivalent of the report card. And if
you remember back to your school days, you'll probably recall anticipating its
arrival with a mix of excitement and anxiety. Had you performed as well as you
thought you did? Would tardiness or being too talkative affect your grades?
Master the Annual Review
By Lee Miller, Monster Contributing Writer
Employee
performance evaluations can evoke similar feelings. What if your worst fears
become a reality in the way of a poor performance review? Read on for what
Hallie Crawford -- a certified career coach and founder of HallieCrawford.com
-- says you should do.
Remain Calm
"First
and foremost, breathe and relax," she says. You may feel blindsided, but
stay calm and take in what your supervisor is telling you without getting
defensive. Focus on what you're being told -- you can even take notes. But save
your rebuttals for later.
However, if
your supervisor is getting angry or being unprofessional, you can try to steer
the review to facts and practical information. Crawford advises workers,
"Tell your boss, 'I appreciate your candor, but I'd like to get
constructive feedback that will help me improve.'" She adds, "You
want her to know that you understand there's a problem, but assure her that
your focus is solution-oriented."
Act, Don't React
If you're
feeling defenseless and caught off guard -- or (and especially) if you're
feeling angry -- try to buy some time to react to your review and answer
criticisms. Crawford says you should request the opportunity to mull things
over. "Explain to your manager that you'd like to take a day or two to
develop a plan of action to address these issues," says Crawford.
"The fact that you're willing to come up with solutions will get your boss
on your side, as will soliciting ideas from her as to what you should do in the
immediate."
Remember That Perspective Is Subjective
You don't
have to accept every criticism of your performance as fact. You can dispute
some parts -- if you do it with kid gloves. "You've got to keep things
civil and polite, but you don't need to roll over," Crawford says.
"Acknowledge the valid points of your review, but you can dissent by
saying, 'There are just a few things that I have a different perspective on;
this is what actually happened.'" Doing so will allow you to direct the
conversation back to your point of view rather than attacking the quality of
your evaluation.
Get Real
So, you've
gotten a poor review and you may or may not agree with it. You now need to
decide if you want to stay at this job or move on. If you love your job, it's
worth working on things, even if you disagree with your evaluation, Crawford
says. "But most people have a gut sense that a job isn't a fit, yet
they've ignored that instinct," she says. If that's the case, she believes
in moving on to another opportunity.
She reminds
workers not to decide whether to stay or go from a place of fear. "You
need to come from a place of power and confidence in yourself," she says.
"If you're afraid, you won't be able to make the best decision for your
career."
Learn from Your Mistakes
When you
land at your next job, you may feel extreme anxiety about your first evaluation.
You can prevent this -- and getting another negative review -- by opening the
lines of communication with your manager from day one.
"You
don't ever want an evaluation to be a big surprise," Crawford says.
"But you can ensure against that by asking for feedback often and checking
in with your boss and coworkers." Find out how often you'll get an
official evaluation but also solicit informal reviews after big projects.
"People who communicate openly from day one on a job set the stage to receive
feedback naturally," she says. "So be that person in the first
place."
By Lee Miller, Monster Contributing Writer
You would think that working hard, doing a good job and
getting results would guarantee a good annual review and a decent salary
increase. Perhaps at some companies that's true. But at many companies, doing a
good job is not enough to guarantee a decent raise. Even worse, employees who
have stayed with one company and have not sought out offers from other
employers tend to earn less than their peers who have changed jobs at least
once during the past 10 years.
Nine Things You Can Control in Workplace Conflicts
It doesn't have to be that way. If you put some of the same
energy into making sure the right people know you're doing a good job [that you are actually doing well], you may get a salary commensurate with your
accomplishments. Here are three tips to help you get the most out of your
annual review:
1. Make It
Easy for Your Boss
Bosses hate doing annual reviews. To do them right takes
work. Moreover, normally no one but you really cares about what the review
says. Most importantly, a lot of bosses don't know what their workers do on a
daily basis or what they have accomplished. If something significant happened
earlier in the year, there's a good chance your boss has either forgotten about
it or thinks it happened last year. So get a copy of the review form. Then
write your boss a memo or email detailing all your accomplishments, laid out in
a way so those accomplishments can easily be included in your review.
2. Start
Early
If you send that memo a few weeks before your annual review
is due, it won't make much difference. And it isn't that your boss has already
written the review. Unless your company has a corporate culture that places
great value on the review process, many bosses start to write the review on the
day it's due. However, what you will get as a raise and, hence, the ratings you
will get on the review, were determined months earlier when budgets were
prepared.
To be able to influence the outcome, you have to take action
well ahead of review time. Your boss needs to hear about every success all year
long and in a way that does not appear to be bragging. One way to do that
successfully is to develop the type of relationship that allows you to simply
call up or drop by whenever something good happens and tell your boss. Get in
the habit of finding reasons to talk to your boss and to meet with him
casually. Have coffee once a week or drop by his office to personally give your
boss something he needs.
Another good way to let everyone know what a good job you
are doing, without appearing to be bragging, is to send a memo or email to key
people, including your boss, praising your subordinates for a job well done.
You will not only get credit for what has been accomplished, but you will be
considered a good manager, because you are sharing credit with the people who
work for you.
3.
Demonstrate Why Your Situation Is Different
Keep in mind that there is almost always a limited budget
for raises. If your boss wants to give you a big raise, he has to either give
less to others or seek special approval. Neither of those are things your boss
will want to do. So you have to let your boss know that yours is a special
case, and you expect a better raise than most of your fellow employees. Start
by making sure you do a good job throughout the year. That means making your
boss look good. Align your priorities with those of your boss.
Take every opportunity to
differentiate yourself from your peers. Learn new skills. Take on additional
responsibilities. Once you have demonstrated you have mastered those new
responsibilities and are delivering results, you can let your boss know you
expect to be compensated differently as a result.Nine Things You Can Control in Workplace Conflicts
By Vivian Scott, Author of Conflict Resolution at Work for Dummies
OOW
2013
What can you do if a workplace conflict is still raging out
of control, despite your every effort to resolve it? While your emotions may be
in knots over the situation, the best strategy isn’t to focus on what you can’t
control, but on what you can. Here are nine areas within your control.
1. Your
Plan for the Future
Consider what’s important and follow a strategy for a period
of time that feels comfortable. Your plan may include leaving your current work
environment, or you may decide staying is the best thing to help meet your goal
for a secure retirement, health benefits or a good letter of recommendation.
Knowing what you want your future to look like helps you look past the current
situation and focus beyond your temporary problems.
2. Your
Perspective
It’s easy to get so wrapped up in a disagreement that you
lose all perspective about the situation. This is especially true when the
conflict is at work and you’re experiencing it every day. Dealing with a
persistent difficulty can become the routine -- until you decide to change how
you look at it. Stop and reassess your point of view. See if you can find a
learning opportunity in the situation. Maybe this is a chance for you to step
outside yourself and extend a little compassion to the other person. Or maybe
if you purposefully and mindfully examine what’s going on, you can honestly say
the issue isn’t that important to you.
3. Your
Responses
You can’t control the other person’s actions, thoughts or
feelings, but you always have the option to control your own responses. Change
how you react to what’s happening, and look for ways to respond that won’t
escalate your anxiety or blood pressure. Consider how you want others to see
you and choose your responses accordingly.
4. Your
Investment
How long have you lived with this conflict and how much
effort are you putting into it? Do you really want to be more emotionally
invested than everyone else? If your answer is no (or even a shaky maybe), then
try to reduce your investment in the drama. Spend less time thinking about it,
talking about it and engaging in it.
5. Your
Role in the Conflict
As difficult as it is to admit, you probably have some
responsibility in the conflict. Consider how your actions and reactions look to
others. Ask yourself, “What have I said or done -- or not said or done -- that
has kept this conflict going?” It may take the assistance of friends, family or
professionals to help you realize it, but you don’t need to continue being the
bully or the victim. If it takes two to tango and you’re no longer willing to
dance, the conflict has to diminish.
6. Your
Energy
Changing where you focus your energy can be a huge stress
reliever. Unresolved conflict (and unresolved emotions) can be a black hole for
energy; you can give and give without any guarantee you’ll see that energy
investment returned to you. Instead of putting 110 percent of yourself into the
conflict, put your energy into a different outlet. Cleaning a closet, putting
together a proposal for a creative project at work or hitting the gym are all
great ways to channel energy and emotions.
7. Your Own
Story
When I read a good book, I create the movie in my head. I’m
the casting director, set designer and director. When it comes to a conflict at
work, you can essentially do the same by choosing how you depict the scene to
yourself and others. When you’re not emotionally involved in a problem, you can
see both sides, so be objective and apply it to your own situation. Decide how
this particular story will play out and how you’ll speak about it. Give an
account without elevating or victimizing anyone. When a coworker or supervisor
asks about specifics, consider an honest but hopeful response such as, “It’s a
difficult time right now, but I’m learning a valuable lesson about
expectations,” rather than, “Yet again I’m the victim and no one cares.”
8. Your
Method for Processing Emotions
You can keep the impact of a conflict to yourself and stuff
your emotions away, or you can find constructive ways to process what’s
happening. Talking with a mentor, family member, friend, clergy or therapist
can be helpful. Keeping a journal, writing letters you’ll never send (my
personal favorite), exercising or even slinging rocks at a tree are all
productive ways to process the emotions and perspective associated with an
otherwise unproductive situation.
9. Your
Character
You may follow directions and have job responsibilities, but
no one can make you do anything. When you say, “He just makes me so (fill in
the blank) that I had to (fill in the terrible past response or action you
took),” you’re giving the other person control over your moral fiber. Take
personal responsibility and don’t give anyone else the power to make you behave
in a way that is unbecoming, unethical or dishonorable. Show your best side --
not an unchecked series of poor reactions. ______________________________________________
Vivian Scott is a Professional Certified Mediator and the author of Conflict Resolution at Work for Dummies. Having spent many years in the competitive and often stress-filled world of high tech marketing, Scott realized that resolving conflict within the confines of office politics was paramount to success. Prior to retirement from corporate life, Scott developed the “America at Work” video series. She is also the recipient of a rare personal award from the Small Business Administration for her commitment to small business development.
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